INSISTENCE Cold

We have all had relationships where we fail to see the truth of the matter, even from the very beginnings. Insistence that someone you desire should feel reciprocally the same is never a given. Often your target will telegraph clearly their disinterest but you have to be willing to recognize it. Projecting your vision of who you'd prefer them to be, who you've decided you think they are, in order to satisfy you intent on a relationship doesn't make it so. Sometimes, this can cause them to act uncharacteristically and aggressively cold in order to get their message of disinterest across. Reviewing this path in retrospect, have you learned to not force the insistence of a relationship on someone that's not your match? or are you doomed to repeat this lack of awareness eternally?